Week 37 - Matthew 15:4

For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’ and ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’

This is a reference to Exodus 20:12:  Honor your father and mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.

NIV, Life Application Study Bible Footnotes:

This is the first commandment with a promise attached.  To live in peace for generations in the promised land, the Israelites would need to respect authority and build strong families.  But what does it mean to "honor" parents?  Partly, it means speaking well of them and politely to them.  It also means acting in a way that  shows them courtesy and respect (but not to obey them if this means disobedience to God).  It means following their teaching and example of putting God first.  Parents have a special place in God's sight.  Even those who find it difficult to get along with their parents are still commanded to honor them.

In the book of Matthew, Jesus talks about this command as he's teaching about inner purity.  The following is that entire section -- Matthew 15:1-20

Then some Pharisees and teachers of the law came to Jesus from Jerusalem and asked, 2 “Why do your disciples break the tradition of the elders? They don’t wash their hands before they eat!” 3 Jesus replied, “And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? 4 For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’ and ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death. 5 But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is ‘devoted to God,’ 6 they are not to ‘honor their father or mother’ with it. Thus you nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition. 7 You hypocrites! Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you:

8 “‘These people honor me with their lips,
but their hearts are far from me.
9 They worship me in vain;
their teachings are merely human rules.'”

10 Jesus called the crowd to him and said, “Listen and understand. 11 What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them.” 12 Then the disciples came to him and asked, “Do you know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this?”
13 He replied, “Every plant that my heavenly Father has not planted will be pulled up by the roots. 14 Leave them; they are blind guides. If the blind lead the blind, both will fall into a pit.”  Peter said, “Explain the parable to us.”

16 “Are you still so dull?” Jesus asked them. 17 “Don’t you see that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and then out of the body? 18 But the things that come out of a person’s mouth come from the heart, and these defile them.19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts—murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. 20 These are what defile a person; but eating with unwashed hands does not defile them.”

May you seek to honor God with your whole heart!